Saturday, February 2, 2019

Now Kabir has crossed 3.5 year age mark. He loves to hear stories and also loves to make his own stories. The normal games which he plays are modified as per his imagination.



I thought I can keep up with him in his games. But i was wrong. Now he is strong enough to push move me, runs faster than me. In story making department he is getting strong. He has five super heroes to follow. Batman, Superman, Spiderman, Iron man and Captain America. And he is always Spiderman whereas I am Superman. This Superman is supposed to come second in any race or jumping competition.

Last afternoon he lined up all five super heroes and told me to talk to them! Now can you imagine talking to them for two hours? Level of stupidity was very high, but believe me, we both were engaged fully. We were asking them some thing, say about their dress, and they would reply, this reply will be routed through me.

Western world thinks that teenagers are very challenging to take care off. That phase of life is considered as most scary period for parents. Well in case of Rinky, there was no such experience, at least in my knowledge. Today, being her 18th birthday 🎂, she is officially now adult. LGD family has 20 members, out of which 19 are adults and 1 is monster boy. And in year 2000, when Dad left for his final journey, LGD family had 16 members, out of which eight were kids.

Between Chinky - Rinky I consider Rinky to be elder sister, the way she bosses over Chinky. Even slight mistake / error is observed, critisized and regulated. 'dideeeee' is Rinky operative word. Chinky tries to ignore her, but persistent Rinky never gives up.

Every one love their mother. No two thought. But this girl's love is at different level only. She must have created record of sort of saying 'I love you.' or flying kisses or hugs to her mother. Just mention of word "mother" brings up a gentle glow to her face.


Now, some observations on record, so that she gets correct boy friend. If he reads this and still wants to be boy friend, than I would say, he is right person.

She is Nani 👵 of the house. Likes to boss and keep track of every one. Loves her mum the most. Closely followed by her 'bhaaabhiii' Muskan. I have seen her scolding her Dadi also, if she becomes careless with herself! Chinky loves to read, and avoids social gathering, it is credit to Rinky's constant request to 'keep mobile down and participate,' has changed her into social being. One thing which I like in her is that she willingly accepts any situation. Yeh, but she is bit lazy. Smartly, she passes on small tasks to others, and they willing comply.

And she is good at keeping her feelings hidden. Basically she is very sensitive and gets hurt easily. One would have to observe her closely to know that she is hurt by this action or word.

And yes, I am going to get dressing down from her for writing all this. Hopefully she never reads.